People all over the world have wants. That's a fact of life. People voice daily that they want something. Do they know how to get what they want? Do YOU? Is there a goal that you keep putting off because you just don't know where to start? Is there something that you want badly, but don't feel as though you can get it? Do you want a new job, car, relationship, more money, or a new place to live? If you've been telling yourself:
"I want xyz, but I don't know where to start"
"I would like to go to xyz, but I don't have the money"
"I wish I can attract my soul mate, but I am not good enough"
If you are telling yourself any of these things, then you are not working with the law of attraction. You are actually working against it. The law of attraction gives you what you focus on. So if you are focusing on things that you don't want or have, you are going to attract more of those things into your life. When you start focusing on the things that you do want, your life will improve dramatically. You will notice a change in your attitude, and you will find that once you focus on the things that you do want, you start to feel better about them and they will suddenly appear in your life.
Before you proclaim "I want this and I want it now!" there are some simple steps that you must take before you can actually get what it is that you want. For some people, this process in very easy. For others, this process takes time to develop, but with practice, you will be on your way to attracting anything you want.
I created this ten step process while I was contemplating what would be the most effective way to get all the things that I want. I find that when you ask yourself a question, normally you will want to find the answer to the question. Asking yourself a question will not only help you identify what you want, but it will also tell you if what you want is in alignment with your thoughts and feelings.
When you are in alignment with your thoughts and emotions, you are in a state of attraction. When you are not in alignment with your thoughts, you are also in a state of attraction, but most likely you will not be attracting what you want. The 10 steps that I am about to give to you will help you stay in alignment with your thoughts and help you get what you want.
10 Steps To Getting What You Want
1.Ask Yourself "What Do I Want?"
Get clear about what you want. Write a list of the things that you want. I recommend to keep this list in a place where you frequent often. (Bedroom or bathroom mirror, Fridge, Computer desk, Etc)
2.Why Do You Want This?
You must know why you want what you want. There has to be a reason. For example, you might want a new modern styled bedroom set because the one you have now is old and is not in style.
3.How Do You Feel About What You Want?
Too many times people want things and wonder why they don't have it yet. In order for you to get the thing you want, you must feel good about what you want. You must feel as though you will get the thing you want. You cannot hold a negative thought and then expect it to come just because you thought about it. You must feel good about what you want or else you will not be able to recieve it.
4.What will you exchange for in replace of the thing that you want?
This is a tricky one. If you want something, you must give something up. Let's say you want confidence. Would you still hold on to the thought that you had low self esteem if you want confidence? Absolutely not. So why want something good, but you are still holding on to something bad? Give up the bad to receive the good.
5.What are you going to do with it once you have it?
This should be easy to answer, but lots of times we always don't know. This is why it's very important you get clear on what you want. You must know what your intentions will be for whatever it is that you want so you will be satisfied with it when it comes to you.
6.Visualize
Visualizing is very fun to do once you know what you want, know why you want it, feel good about what you want, get rid of the bad in order to recieve the good, and know what you are going to do with it once you have it. You should be able to have every detail down about what you want. You must live as though you have it already. You achieve this by visualizing your ideal outcome.
7.Believe
You must believe beyond a reasonable doubt that whatever you want is yours. You must have faith that what you ask for will truly be given to you. You need not worry about where, when, and how what you want is going to materialize. Once you believe it to be true, you will see signs that it is coming.
8.Use Daily Affirmations
affirmations is the confirmation of what you believe. It's reminding you to feel good about what you want. affirmations help to keep you focused on what you want by directing your mind to repeat phrases that help you stay focused on your goal. Write down several sentences that will help counteract a negative thought. These sentences will help you to stay in alignment with your positive thoughts.
9.Gratitude
Be grateful for what you have now. You must be thankful for the things you have and even the things you don't have. By doing this, you are telling the universe that you want more great things to come to you. A great article to read is "10 Things EVERYONE Can Be Grateful For".
10.Receive
To be in a receiving state is to allow what you want into your life without resistance. If you feel you are resisting what you want, (I.E. negative thoughts) I suggest you go back to step 8 and read the affirmations that you wrote down. Staying in alignment with your thoughts and thinking positive will put you on the fast track to attracting and receiving what you want effortlessly!
I recommend you to follow these 10 steps for everything that you want. It could be for money, for a new job, for a new car. It doesn't matter what it is, these steps will work when used frequently. Using these 10 steps will not only help you feel great, but it will make you an attraction magnet where you will be able to get anything you want any time and any place!
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